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Taking the Plunge!
2004-04-02, 6:07 PM #41
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">You are ordered by law to visit your dad every other weekend who lives in another state, in fact 2 states away.
You don't have a job, missed sign ups for drivers ed so gunna be a while.
I don't want to make it seem like they are excuses but they are factors i am willing to move around for her.
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sounds like you're already together to me so that seems kind of bleh

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">You bring it up/she brings it up that you like her and shes says,
"I don't understand why you like me? whats so likeable about me?"(shes looking for compliments i figure)
And the famous "i think your too good for me."
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*begins barfing uncontrollably in a nearby bucket*

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Ok i think that's all, how do i ask this girl out lol, keep with the game or what? Please advice, and if you havn't figured out thats my situation.
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I see nothing wrong. Just make it official by putting the rubber stamp of "Together" on this relationship and whenever you see each other, go somewhere. How far do you two live from each other?

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.

[This message has been edited by Kieran Horn (edited April 02, 2004).]
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:10 PM #42
Like i'd say 3 miles lol

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:12 PM #43
oh dear god...I want to smack you upside the head. 3 miles!? That's it!? That's not far, even walking. I could do that in about an hour.

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:13 PM #44
We don't live far i know i have walked to her house, like litterally but yea i just need the nerve and the right situation instead of everyday before school like we already see each other.

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:17 PM #45
Yoshi, just do what you're comfortable with and feels right to you. There is no one specific recipe for this kind of thing. Don't let others push their style of dealing with this onto you; what works for them may just not suit you.

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Cantina Cloud | BCF | The Massassian 1 & 2 | Gonkmeg
Corrupting the kiddies since '97
2004-04-02, 6:20 PM #46
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Dj Yoshi:
You probably don't get what I mean.


>I sure as hell do. I used to think like that before I learned how the world really works...


I don't talk to her outside of Chem class, and to speak with her until I get to know her better, and then ask her for her number again.


>She wouldn't give it to you now, what makes you think trying again later would make a difference?

Something along those lines. I don't have anything better to use a month or two on, and it's not going to kill me to pursue her a bit.


>It won't kill you, but it will make you look like a puppy on a leash. If it were up to me, I WOULD take death over that.


I'm not being clingy, trust me :P


>You are being clingy, you just won't admit it. Kieran is dead on.


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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 6:21 PM #47
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by whintt:
We don't live far i know i have walked to her house, like litterally but yea i just need the nerve and the right situation instead of everyday before school like we already see each other.

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I still don't see the problem. Labeling yourselves as bf and gf is that hard? You're already friends with benefits.

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Yoshi, just do what you're comfortable with and feels right to you. There is no one specific recipe for this kind of thing. Don't let others push their style of dealing with this onto you; what works for them may just not suit you.</font>

He can do whatever he wants, but he is going to find there are somethings women are not attracted to as a whole. Also, cocky + humor is a style. girls not liking clingy, desperate, or wishy washy guys is a fact.

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.

[This message has been edited by Kieran Horn (edited April 02, 2004).]
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:22 PM #48
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Jaiph:
Yoshi, just do what you're comfortable with and feels right to you. There is no one specific recipe for this kind of thing. Don't let others push their style of dealing with this onto you; what works for them may just not suit you.

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Sorry Jaiph, the "Just-be-yourself line won't cut it this time. He was being himself and look what happened to him. You can only be yourself once you transform your character and build yourself into something better.




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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 6:23 PM #49
::hires someone to hold gun to head while ask girl out::....there done

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:25 PM #50
The entire point of building up your confidence, inner self, etc, etc, is so that you being yourself is more attractive, but more importantly you don't need anyone else to validate you, thus cutting out clinginess.

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:25 PM #51
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
If you want, I might be able to send you something that will help you realize how deep of a hole you keep digging for yourself.

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What might that be, exactly?



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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 6:28 PM #52
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">::hires someone to hold gun to head while ask girl out::....there done
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You need a gun to your head to ask a girl out that you make out with on a regular basis? Just say "Hey, lets go blah blah blah." Thats a date.

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">What might that be, exactly?
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Does the name David ring a bell?

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:29 PM #53
This is ridiculous.. Yoshi appears to have control over the situation, and you guys are offering all kinds of stupid advice. If the girl doesn't like him, she doesn't like him - it sucks, but it's a fact of life. There's not much you can do about it.

Also, two things: first, not all girls are like what you generalize them as, and second, Jaiph is married. I think he knows what works and what doesn't much more than some self-professed "love doctors"..
2004-04-02, 6:29 PM #54
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
The entire point of building up your confidence, inner self, etc, etc, is so that you being yourself is more attractive, but more importantly you don't need anyone else to validate you, thus cutting out clinginess.

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::Nails to wall and reminds oneself to look at it every 2 seconds::

Never heard anything like that before but it makes a lot of sense.



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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:30 PM #55
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Sorry Jaiph, the "Just-be-yourself line won't cut it this time. He was being himself and look what happened to him. You can only be yourself once you transform your character and build yourself into something better.</font>


You can see it that way, I don't. Just because she turned him down doesn't mean some other girl isn't going to like him for who he is now.

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Cantina Cloud | BCF | The Massassian 1 & 2 | Gonkmeg
Corrupting the kiddies since '97
2004-04-02, 6:35 PM #56
Disregard every piece of stupid advice thrown together in this thread, and do what Gir does. DANCE! DANCE THE NIGHT AWAY!!!

[http://www.jedilegacy.net/gonk/girdance.gif] [http://www.jedilegacy.net/gonk/girdance.gif] [http://www.jedilegacy.net/gonk/girdance.gif] [http://www.jedilegacy.net/gonk/girdance.gif]

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I'll admit to Reactor CTF, Duel Abyss, Duel Turbulent, Duel Dustball, and even the CCCP, but not Sky High! (my first, be kind!) Ok so maybe I will.

[This message has been edited by Gonk (edited April 02, 2004).]
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2004-04-02, 6:35 PM #57
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Jaiph:
Yoshi, just do what you're comfortable with and feels right to you. There is no one specific recipe for this kind of thing. Don't let others push their style of dealing with this onto you; what works for them may just not suit you.

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Thank you Jaiph.

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2004-04-02, 6:36 PM #58
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Jaiph:
You can see it that way, I don't. Just because she turned him down doesn't mean some other girl isn't going to like him for who he is now.

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I hate to sound pessimistic, but I'm not convinced. The lessons of my own life are all too clear, and they all say the opposite. You must be a man (strong, confident, decisive) to get the women.

If someone plans to be clingy and desperate all their lives, then they must prepare for the future by amassing a huge stockpile of vaseline and a ordering lifetime subscription to playboy.

Whether you take my advice or not, it makes no difference to me.

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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

[This message has been edited by Pagewizard_YKS (edited April 02, 2004).]
2004-04-02, 6:37 PM #59
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Also, two things: first, not all girls are like what you generalize them as, and second, Jaiph is married. I think he knows what works and what doesn't much more than some self-professed "love doctors"..
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Just because you are married doesn't mean you know how attraction works. I do, and it is seriously flubbed up, but it works a certain way. And I am not a love doctor. I'm a love god!!!!!! *cheesy heroic pose*

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">You can see it that way, I don't. Just because she turned him down doesn't mean some other girl isn't going to like him for who he is now.
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True, but the chances of that happening with someone he actually likes both physcially, mentally, or at all is diminished if he is needy, clingy, and desperate. Women want men who have good leadership skills, and needy, clingy, and desperate are the antithesis of that.

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:38 PM #60
*Dances*

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2004-04-02, 6:40 PM #61
Page, I don't think the masterbation thing is applicable. Even pimp daddies jack off every once in awhile. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]

Trust me Yoshi, just start improving your inner self and it will bleed into all aspects of your life, not just women. If you want, I'll send you a little sample of something that will help. You can disregard it or whatever, but I strongly suggest you read it. Do you want it?

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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:40 PM #62
::gives Yoshi a high five for starting this thread::

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:42 PM #63
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
Page, I don't think the masterbation thing is applicable. Even pimp daddies jack off every once in awhile. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]</font>


>Perhaps, but what you get from jerking isn't even in the same league as the real thing.

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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

[This message has been edited by Pagewizard_YKS (edited April 02, 2004).]
2004-04-02, 6:43 PM #64
Yes, and also, I'm not needy or clingy. I don't know where you guys got that thought. I was for a while about a year ago, but that was because I had just lost friends I'd known all my life, and it was well...kind of to be expected. Now I'm just me... But yah sure. email--yoshmaista @ shockzero DOT com
AIM--Dj Yoshmo

And damnit, I don't want sex from the poor girl, just a relationship. You guys might be gods of getting the *** , but I just want a relationship, corny as it sounds. I'm nowhere near ready for a sexual relationship. At all.
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2004-04-02, 6:48 PM #65
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Dj Yoshi:
Yes, and also, I'm not needy or clingy. I don't know where you guys got that thought.
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>It's damningly evident in what you wrote earlier in this thread. Kieran picked up on it just the same as I did.


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And damnit, I don't want sex from the poor girl, just a relationship. You guys might be gods of getting the *** , but I just want a relationship, corny as it sounds. I'm nowhere near ready for a sexual relationship. At all.
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>Why not? You had better have your fun now before you get to the point where you need to start popping viagra.




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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 6:52 PM #66
Yoshi, pagewizard just uses his "powers" for evil. He likes to get sex. I on the other hand just like to mess with girls.

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Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 6:52 PM #67
To the first part, I don't even talk to this girl often, I just know her somewhat, and really want to get together with her. Why? Because she's one of the few females at the school worth my time. I ignore most women.

As for the "Before I start popping viagra" bit, no. I meant maybe like after I get a LICENSE AND A CAR. Don't you think it's kind of lame to get dropped off at a girl's house, just so you two can get it on? Not to mention there's no real push for me to do it right now...

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2004-04-02, 6:54 PM #68
Pagewizard: Society embodied.

[http://forums.massassi.net/html/rolleyes.gif]

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Do you have stairs in your house?
Do you have stairs in your house?
2004-04-02, 6:56 PM #69
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
Yoshi, pagewizard just uses his "powers" for evil. He likes to get sex. I on the other hand just like to mess with girls.

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Nah, the guys that use speed seduction techniques like to get sex above all else. That's not who I am. (kieran probably has heard of these things and the whole speed seduction bit, but the rest of you probably don't know what i'm talking about.) I use my "powers" for self improvement and developing my goals. I consider the women to be a fringe benefit.



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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 6:57 PM #70
Yoshi kinda right, would be kinda lame, but in the mean time before that, it's still really nice to have another warm body around ya who has feeling for you. Wow that sounded lame.

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 6:58 PM #71
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Correction:
Pagewizard: Society embodied.

[http://forums.massassi.net/html/rolleyes.gif]

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Society trys to move people's thoughts to Yoshi's way of thinking. I'm actively going the opposite way.

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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 7:01 PM #72
lol keep posting this is my entertainment for tonight, it's like watching discovery women channel. It's like 1 am and this is keeping me up. Keep going lol

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 7:02 PM #73
Page: From what I've heard, speed seduction is a crock of ****
btw, I was trying to be humourous. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]
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Beware of music. It brings out the animosity in everyone.

[This message has been edited by Kieran Horn (edited April 02, 2004).]
Democracy: rule by the stupid
2004-04-02, 7:03 PM #74
One of those, only happens in movies kinda thing?

BTW when do we set our clocks ahead?
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2004-04-02, 7:05 PM #75
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by whintt:
lol keep posting this is my entertainment for tonight, it's like watching discovery women channel. It's like 1 am and this is keeping me up. Keep going lol

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It's not so much learning how women think.

Rather, the purpose is to re-learn how our minds should work as men. A lifetime of society-fed bull**** has made many men forget what it is to be real men, not sissy chumps.


It's remarkably like the matrix if you stop to think about it. Kieran, me, and others like us are here to help you get unplugged. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]



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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 7:05 PM #76
I'd really like to know how you suddenly know how I think. For chrissakes, you don't even know the whole story, not even most of it.

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2004-04-02, 7:06 PM #77
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
Page: From what I've heard, speed seduction is a crock of ****
btw, I was trying to be humourous. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]</font>



very true. I was making sure you knew that. Well done. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/biggrin.gif]

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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 7:07 PM #78
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Dj Yoshi:
I'd really like to know how you suddenly know how I think. For chrissakes, you don't even know the whole story, not even most of it.

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I've already heard all I need to know. I can fill in the blanks with lessons from my own past. Based on what you've told us, I know how you think pretty much as well as you do.



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Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.
2004-04-02, 7:07 PM #79
So there is no Women? :P

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Blue, no yellow, AHHHHHHHHHH
2004-04-02, 7:08 PM #80
No, you assumed how I think/thought. Nice try though, you would've been right ~a year ago.

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