I'm a few posts behind in this, I haven't been around the past few days. But I'm going to jump back into this mess anyway.
blujay, it's obvious that you are against homosexuals 110%. I'm with you on this, I personally believe that homosexuality isn't right and is a sin. I also happen to be a pretty big homophobe to be honest, they freak me out.
However, my beliefs shouldn't govern the rest of America. While I believe that homosexuality is wrong, I also oppose the amendment to ban gay marriage. Is this hypicritical? No. Why? Because our government is guided by the constitution, which 1, through the first amendment guarentees religous freedom to everybody, and 2, seperates church and state.
This is the way I see this gay issue. Usually your opinion on whether homosexuality is wrong or right depends on your religous beliefs. This is true for me, I'm a Baptist, and I believe that is wrong. But our government isn't supposed to be influenced by religion, thus I don't think that it should have any say so at all on homosexuality.
Marriage is a religous event, and the church governs over the cerimony. If I'm correct, the government just legalizes a religous cerimony, making it offical. Now if a certain church marries a homosexual couple, and the government refuses to legalize it, is that not combining church and state? To me, it looks like someones religous belief is getting in the way of there government position.
I'm not saying that government officials should be athiest, or that homosexuality is right. What I'm saying is that I believe in full seperation of church and state. I don't mind government officials having their decisions influenced by their religion, I think that it is great that their faith helps guide them. However, when one groups beliefs infringes on the beliefs of another group, thats when its gone too far.
And whos to say that homosexuals won't start their own religion? I honestly don't know what required to get a new religion recognized enough to where the government will legalize marriages, but I believe that its possible that they could start one. And if its a big enough religion and they approve of gay marriages and performs the cerimony, who's place is to tell them "Sorry, we don't agree with what you're doing, so we aren't going to let you proceed. And the constitutional rights of freedom of religion and seperation of church and state don't apply here, you're a speical case"? Homosexuals or not, they are still Americans, which means that they are granted rights under the constitution.
blujay I may be completely wrong about you, but you seem to come off as strongly supporting the amendment to ban gay marriage and that you just oppose gay rights in general. If this is the case, how can you back it up constituionally, when the document that governs our country says that we have seperation of church and state and freedom of religion? If I'm wrong about you, I apologize.
One last note, I believe you said in several spots that homosexuality was morally wrong, and used Bible qoutes to back yourself up. While you make a very good point, I'm afraid that I disagree with you here as well. To be honest I don't remember exactly where in the Bible it says this, but I'm fairly sure that the Bible says that we are not to judge other people, and to leave the judging to him. This is why I try not to say that homosexuality is "wrong", I just try to say that I don't agree with it.
Sorry if some of that is choppy and clear as mud, but I'm tired and worn out. I'll probably come back later to clarify some of it.