Attitude, Behavior, confidence, etc? Things along those lines. People who fuss *too much* about their physical appearance are probably not confident that they're 'good enough' for whatever female they are pursuing...
I was in a relationship with a girl I'll call "Barbara Anne" from last May to about November... and the problem (and part of the reason we split up) is because I always thought "
I'm trying to get
her!" and always thought I had to be good enough for her or do enough for her, not thinking that I
am good enough already. Now i'm not saying i'm perfect or good enough for anyone or even most people or whatever, but... It helps if you at least think/act like they want you as much as you want them.
That was stupid, ignore it.
