wait just one damn second.

doesn't christianity have the whole forgiveness loophole?

Go nail some ***** and then confess or something.

Gris can't come to the keyboard, he's too busy gettin' busy.

[QUOTE=Mr. Stafford]wait just one damn second.

doesn't christianity have the whole forgiveness loophole?

Go nail some ***** and then confess or something.[/QUOTE]

LOL, I had a friend back in high school who actually adhered to that. Went out on Saturday night and lived life to it's fullest and confessed all his sins the next day. That just doesn't seem right in my book.

Some people really did miss out on the sexual revolution.

[QUOTE=Mr. Stafford]wait just one damn second.

doesn't christianity have the whole forgiveness loophole?

Go nail some ***** and then confess or something.[/QUOTE]


It doesn't count as forgiveness unless you are truly sorry for what you've done. If he went there with the full intention of knowing he could be forgiven for it, then he really was not forgiven in God's eye. (Forgiveness by priest does not necessarily imply forgiveness from God.)

so get real drunk and regret everything the next day.

[QUOTE=Krig the Viking]Don't do anything you'll regret. Once something like this is done, it can't be un-done. Actions based purely on emotion are always extremely short-sighted.[/QUOTE]

What he said.

[QUOTE=Cool Matty]It doesn't count as forgiveness unless you are truly sorry for what you've done. If he went there with the full intention of knowing he could be forgiven for it, then he really was not forgiven in God's eye. (Forgiveness by priest does not necessarily imply forgiveness from God.)[/QUOTE]

I don't believe anyone could make the assertion that God did or did not do anything because no one knows exactly how it works out. I mean, I'm sure if you believe that unless he had a change of heart and is truly sorry that he's forgiven then that's fine, but until God shows up and is like "Hey guys, this is who is and isn't forgiven... and that guy over there definitely IS NOT! *FIRE AND BRIMSTONE!*" then no one can make assertions that anything relating to God is definitive.

It's our belief that that is how he works. While indeed he may actually not give a damn what we do, that's not part of the Christian religion, and not in the scope of the topic.

This is the only life you're ever going to have. Live it.

[QUOTE=Mr. Stafford]wait just one damn second.

doesn't christianity have the whole forgiveness loophole?

Go nail some ***** and then confess or something.[/QUOTE]

Also gotta consider the fact of guilt. Many, many people out there (including myself) aren't exactly experts on the content of the Bible, but we're also pretty sure that running around having lots of commitment-free* sex won't put us in God's good books. Lots of people feel guilty about having one-night stands and other stuff, and confessing lifts some of that guilt. So, it's often just for their own benefit, and can still be interpreted as selfishness, unless, as mentioned by Cool Matty, the confessor is truly sorry for what he's done. (And selfishness is also something that probably won't put you into God's good books.)

*By commitment-free, I meant having sexual relations with someone whom you don't have a real relationship with (either gf/bf or marriage).

Define "bad". Don't you mean different?

That was a lot of very insightful input on both sides of the argument.

Oh, anyway, I realized that all this inner conjecture was pointless. I knew this all along, I just had to get myself to believe it. I'm not going to roam around actively hunting sex, and I really didn't feel that in the mood when I got booty called. If I'm with somebody I'm in to and it escalates, I'll let things happen as they may. Otherwise, business as usual.

Most girls annoy me after awhile. I'm not Mr. Agreeable myself, but I prefer either girls who shut up when you start talking and aren't afraid to prepare you a meal after a long day or girls who are fiercely independent but conversationally engaging and cultured, even if that means they're a bit pretentious. The 'cute' or 'picky' girls that fall between tend to get on my nerves, and this chick isn't an exception.

No, I mean bad. The obscure idea that 'bad' is something we consider different is a stupid argument that people who do bad things like to associate with. Bad is bad in definition of ourselves, or a pivit point [society, religion, etc]. It's not bad because it's DIFFERENT. It's bad because it's incorrect based on our reference.

JediKirby

Is Obi Kwiet arguing the case for moral relativism? whaaa?

Basically, you agree with me.

its "Shuttup and get BACK in the kitchen, B****!!!"

Just like GOD HIMSELF intended .... runs far far away

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

I was placed in a very similar situation recently. A good female friend of mine whom I had never had feelings for propositioned me for some no strings attatched sex. I did it, and immediately afterward I started to have feelings for her. This ruined everything. I got insanely jealous when she would hang out with other guys and I wanted to do it again and again.

We never did it again. This was 3 weeks ago. I found out recently why we never did it again. She got a call from her doctor telling her that she has HPV. There is a possibility that I now have it as well. She got the call after we did it, so I can't be pissed at her, and she's only had three prior sexual partners, two of which were virgins. So it's not as though she's a slut either.

The problem is, though, that she doesn't seem to want to be as close now. She said we would continue to remain close, but could not have sex anymore. And I understand this completely. I would simply like to remain close to her because doctors say that HPV will not be guaranteed to pass from your system for 2 years, and there is no test for males to see if you have it or not. So the sad fact is, if you think you might have it, you don't get to have sexual activity for 2 years.

I don't know what the problem is, but she's being very awkward about all of this. I am assuming that she has for some reason changed her mind and doesn't want to remain close. This really irritates me for obvious reasons, and she has been avoiding me. I don't know what to do here.

All I can tell you is this. If a girl propositions something like this to you, there are benefits and drawbacks. Big time.

What's HPV?

Doesnt sound good, and I'm assuming its not HIV... please say its not.

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

No I should point out that it is not a typo. I did not mean to type HIV. It IS HPV.

Hpv is to genital warts what HIV is to AIDS. There's no guarantee that I'll have warts or anything. There are many different strains of it, most of which are harmless. She doesn't have warts, and she's had it for over a year. So it's not a strain that causes warts. So I really have nothing to worry about, and odds are I could continue to shag as long as I use condoms.

[QUOTE=Mr. Stafford]wait just one damn second.

doesn't christianity have the whole forgiveness loophole?

Go nail some ***** and then confess or something.[/QUOTE]
"What then? Shall we sin so that grace may abound? On the contrary, we uphold the law." - Romans 6:1 (roughly from memory)

Anyway, guys, if you treat sex as something trivial, it will become exactly that to you and nothing more, completely regardless of your religious standing. You can always wait. You can never un-screw.

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"AAAAAAAH THAT TRUCK'S COMING RIGHT AT MY CA..."

Fancyman appears very wise.

Ruthven, I think we're on the same page.

rofl, I love fancyman

Jeesh, if you're seriously concerned about dying without ever having sex, all I can say is get a life.

Yeah, but honestly, if you don't do it before you die, then... damn... that would suck.

You know, just because sex isn't a big deal to you doesn't mean it's not a big deal to anyone. It's sort of like how rich people don't think money's a big deal because they've always had it.

Warning: I am in no way indicating that dogsrool has always, or ever, had sex.

Dogsrool is constantly having sex. All the time. Even now.

Someone sounds jealous.

Yes, I'm jealous of being obsessed with sex like most of the world. That must be it.

Well you know what, dogs? It's not exactly natural to not care about having sex...

What's that? An appeal to nature fallacy?

Would've been more productive to post a blank.

This is going nowhere.

Some people like to have sex. Some people live for it. Some people don't care.

Depending on the day, I'm one of the second 2. But mostly the second one.

Everyone is different, but in the same way you think it's stupid for me to ridicule your viewpoint, I think it's stupid for you to ridicule someone else's.

Opinions are like ***holes in a lot of ways. Except you're not an opinion.

Clever.

And ironic.

.....and for anyone who IS starting a physical relationship, all I can say is this, well i can say a lot of things, including, DO IT FOR ME, DUDE, FOR THE TEEEAAAM!!!!

But mostly I say this.

Watch porn.

And lots of it.

Its quite educational.

Watch them in action, study the many different positions, speeds, behavior.
Though I dont suggest you shout "WHOS YA DADDY" at ANY point, unless your woman is a little strange.

I speak from experience here, especially if your gf isnt as experienced as u, show your magic....

if you do... "yours is the world and everything in it. And you'll be a man, my son."

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

Which reminds me... with multiple partners, you have that sense of competition. And for what?

Anyone?

i like pie

i eat cow's pie

So do I. What can I say? Some people get hungry during sex.

Fancyman wins life

You, sir, are a genius.