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Veiw on relationships?
2004-08-28, 6:32 AM #81
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Pagewizard_YKS:

You prefer to work with situations. I prefer to look at the root of the problem and attack it from there. When a building has a cracked foundation, you tear it down and start over. You just don't paint over it and solve that problem while leaving the rest of the building unstable.

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You made my point for me.


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2004-08-28, 6:39 AM #82
Ok. Page, you know how you said you shouldnt be dependant on the other person for your happiness, and you didnt mean to treat them like a jerk by saying keep them on your toes, but having alifeo f your own. well thats thepoint of commitment. YOU DONT GO AROUND DRAWING A LINE LIKE THIS: this is my life, and my time iwth the guys, and this is your life, your time with the girls. its shared, love/life. obviously you still have a life of your own in the way you have friends, you spend time with them but theres a certian priority, and unless your partner knows that, the essense of along term relationship (dedicating yourself to one person) is lost. so i think what youre talkin about maybe, is a steady study buddy, not neccessarily a meaningful partner.

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2004-08-28, 8:50 AM #83
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Pagewizard_YKS:
Talk about the blind leading the blind.... [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif]
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...given who you are and what thread this is....

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2004-08-28, 12:02 PM #84
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by twisteduprising:

Nothing says you have to listen to any of our advices word for word, be we male or female. Since apparently some people are getting all touchy touchy on the subject.

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ROCK ON! Yeah.. Some people eh? I wont follow advice because.. Most of it seems off and well.. One thing I seen overlooked is being yourself, and if everyone who had posted giving their advice is being themselfs.. Then it shows alot.. But if your just using logics into relationships then.. Thats just open opions..

Well heres my advice on whats the best thing you could do.. Be who you are, But be friends.. Friendship starts the base of any relationship.. If its worth lasting then it will step up a level.. Thats life.. Thats how it all works..

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2004-08-28, 12:12 PM #85
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by SilentSavur:
Well heres my advice on whats the best thing you could do.. Be who you are, But be friends.. Friendship starts the base of any relationship.. If its worth lasting then it will step up a level.. Thats life.. Thats how it all works..</font>


Exactly. Be friends, see if a mutual attraction builds. (mutual being the key word there lol). If it does, then go with it. Just let things flow. When things are meant to be, they'll be, and if they aren't, then they wont. Simple as that. Yup you have the perfect logic there [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif] [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif] Seems like you have it all under control [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif] [http://forums.massassi.net/html/biggrin.gif]

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2004-08-28, 12:39 PM #86
hey I got a few intrests in a few people.. so yup [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif] and if they rush me.. least I get something out of it.. One way or another!

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2004-08-28, 12:51 PM #87
Unless a girl is super interested in you already, going down the friends route too long will get you just that: a friend. Not saying that is bad, but it's a common situation where a guy wants more than a friendship but the girl was tired of waiting for him to make a move. If you wait too long, you'll probably be stuck as the friend.

Personally, I let the friendship phase last one week, maybe two. Just enough time to get to know them better and see what kind of a person they probably are. If I feel an attraction, I act on it. Suppressing my feelings is pointless.

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[This message has been edited by Kieran Horn (edited August 28, 2004).]
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2004-08-28, 1:32 PM #88
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
Unless a girl is super interested in you already, going down the friends route too long will get you just that: a friend. Not saying that is bad, but it's a common situation where a guy wants more than a friendship but the girl was tired of waiting for him to make a move. If you wait too long, you'll probably be stuck as the friend.

Personally, I let the friendship phase last one week, maybe two. Just enough time to get to know them better and see what kind of a person they probably are. If I feel an attraction, I act on it. Suppressing my feelings is pointless.

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yes kieran makes a great point. Again it all goes back to taking that risk, but if you really like that girl or want something, that's what is going to have to be done [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]


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Lets finish it then, let us be rid of it...I can't carry it for you Mr. Frodo, but I can carry you...Come on!

"Life Is What Happens While You're Busy Making Other Plans..."

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Live and Let Live
"Too bad stupidity doesn't actually kill"

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2004-08-28, 1:43 PM #89
a very minor risk at that

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2004-08-28, 1:56 PM #90
kieran it's official you're on my list of favorite members here at massassi [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif] haha

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Lets finish it then, let us be rid of it...I can't carry it for you Mr. Frodo, but I can carry you...Come on!

"Life Is What Happens While You're Busy Making Other Plans..."

"This new diet's liquid and dulling to the senses and it's crude, but it will do..." Dashboard Confessional

Live and Let Live
"Too bad stupidity doesn't actually kill"

"No fear. No distractions. The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide."^"I say never be complete...I say let's evolve." ** Fight Club**
2004-08-28, 3:54 PM #91
This is just happening now? What took you so long? [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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2004-08-28, 4:24 PM #92
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
This is just happening now? What took you so long? [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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haha dont know, but the point that matters is that I finally came to the realization right? lol [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif] [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif] [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif] [http://forums.massassi.net/html/biggrin.gif]

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Lets finish it then, let us be rid of it...I can't carry it for you Mr. Frodo, but I can carry you...Come on!

"Life Is What Happens While You're Busy Making Other Plans..."

"This new diet's liquid and dulling to the senses and it's crude, but it will do..." Dashboard Confessional

Live and Let Live
"Too bad stupidity doesn't actually kill"

"No fear. No distractions. The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide."^"I say never be complete...I say let's evolve." ** Fight Club**
2004-08-28, 7:09 PM #93
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Wolvie17:
Ok. Page, you know how you said you shouldnt be dependant on the other person for your happiness, and you didnt mean to treat them like a jerk by saying keep them on your toes, but having alifeo f your own. well thats thepoint of commitment. YOU DONT GO AROUND DRAWING A LINE LIKE THIS: this is my life, and my time iwth the guys, and this is your life, your time with the girls. its shared, love/life. obviously you still have a life of your own in the way you have friends, you spend time with them but theres a certian priority, and unless your partner knows that, the essense of along term relationship (dedicating yourself to one person) is lost. so i think what youre talkin about maybe, is a steady study buddy, not neccessarily a meaningful partner.

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I am slow to commit.

I am not one to jump into a relationship and be committed right away.



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2004-08-29, 12:38 AM #94
Kieran Horn is one cool guy.. Who has pretty darn good opinions.. Some may piss me off but if I get offended means I am acting like a moron or just wrong.. I am starting to see him as a good person..

As for Pagewizard_YKS, What if your forced into the posistion of commitment? Have pre-marital sex.. And have it as a regular part of the slow steady relationship? Usually when that kind of thing happens.. There is emotional mix-ups and the tendancy to comitt to something..

I been there, done that, have the tee shirt! I experienced enough in my life of relationships to know what to do and what not to do.

If my sentances or wording seems off. Just got off from working midnights. It being 6:30am now.. Heh..

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2004-08-29, 5:36 AM #95
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by SilentSavur:


As for Pagewizard_YKS, What if your forced into the posistion of commitment?

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that wouldn't happen unless I knock a girl up... I use condoms and I make sure she takes her pill.

I commit eventually after a few months, but I don't become exclusive when I start seeing the chick. why should I? There is no good reason why i have to commit so soon.

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I have found that you can transform your character solely by the power of belief: as you believe yourself to be, so you shall become over time.

[This message has been edited by Pagewizard_YKS (edited August 29, 2004).]
2004-08-29, 5:56 AM #96
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
Unless a girl is super interested in you already, going down the friends route too long will get you just that: a friend. Not saying that is bad, but it's a common situation where a guy wants more than a friendship but the girl was tired of waiting for him to make a move. If you wait too long, you'll probably be stuck as the friend.

Personally, I let the friendship phase last one week, maybe two. Just enough time to get to know them better and see what kind of a person they probably are. If I feel an attraction, I act on it. Suppressing my feelings is pointless.

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true.



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I have found that you can transform your character solely by the power of belief: as you believe yourself to be, so you shall become over time.
2004-08-29, 6:12 AM #97
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Pagewizard_YKS:
that wouldn't happen unless I knock a girl up... I use condoms and I make sure she takes her pill.

I commit eventually after a few months, but I don't become exclusive when I start seeing the chick. why should I? There is no good reason why i have to commit so soon.

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Man... We know you're the king of all females and all, but seriously, this conversation isn't doing your trustworthiness any good. In your best interest: let it go dude.
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