Antony
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Of course I trusted the black guys in my platoon in boot camp. Well, the one guy was worthless, but that didn't have anything to do with his race.
The thing is, at the same time, when I was a bartender, I hated any time a group of black people came to the bar to order. Why? Because they tend to order stupid expensive drinks and not tip. It was a characteristic that reached nearly across the entire spectrum of black customers. There were occasional ones that overtipped, because they knew that not tipping was, for some reason, a part of black culture. I'm not saying that only black people didn't tip, or that the people who didn't tip did so because they were black. I'm saying that there's no way around drawing a connection from "large group of black customers" to "I'm not getting a tip, and I'm going to be pouring a bunch of shots and making complicated drinks out of top shelf liquor". That makes me a racist. I didn't hate serving them because they were black. I hated serving them because they didn't tip. It just so happens that that majority of people who don't tip are black, and the majority of black people don't tip. Nevertheless, it still makes me a racist.
Everyone has prejudices. The problem is when people justify their prejudices, by saying, "but it's because of this or that, so it's not racist." No, it's still racist, you're just trying to rationalize your racism. Being prejudiced is a nearly universal thing. People will always fail to understand, or flat out disagree with people of other cultures, and that breeds prejudice. I guess you could call it passive or active racism, or some ****. Passive being that you acknowledge the difference in culture, and even if you hate it, you just let it go. Active being, because some guy doesn't tip, you burn a cross in his yard.
Everyone sees racism as an all or nothing game, and it's just not so. Like I've said a million times in this thread, everyone is racist, and there's nothing you can do about it. Being racist doesn't mean you commit hate crimes or anything. It just means you judge people, or make assumptions about them based on their skin color. And several of you who claim not to be racist are saying that either you do exactly that, or are completely fine with other people doing that (in the case of racial profiling).
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