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2004-01-05, 3:04 PM #81
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by happydud:
Maybe one of them was your life long partner.

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That was pretty short... [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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2004-01-05, 3:14 PM #82
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by sugarless5:
well it's great if they are but partners will most likely not last as long as friends, if you have geat friends, so it's important to...not forsake them I guess is what I mean.

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"Til death do we part" ring any bells?

-Speak

PS: boo.

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2004-01-05, 3:23 PM #83
There will (hopefully) only be one person you will marry, hopefully you'll have more than one partner before you marry. Yes, the person you marry will hopefully be your best and longest lasting friend.

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2004-01-05, 4:23 PM #84
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Kieran Horn:
It's more than just confidence. A small degree of...apathy(for lack of a better word. someone wanna help here?) is needed as well. A girl rejects you? okay, whatever. Next girl please. Confidence is destroyed by rejection, so apathy is there to kind of shield it and keep things consistent. The trick is that you can't pretend to be apathetic. You have to genuinely be slightly apathetic about whither you get rejected or not, or else you will take one hit and bow out of the ring.
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Well, I wouldn't call it apathy, since that would mean you wouldn't care even if you did get the girl and everything worked out great. I agree with what you're getting at, though -- the confidence can't be a sort of surface-level, fake thing. You need to be confident not because you're forcing yourself to be, but because you have a deeper inner strength that can shrug off emotional wounds and continue.

Mind you, that inner strength is by no means easy to attain. It's like physical strength -- you have to lift weights for hours every week before you get any stronger. But in the end it pays off because you can draw on it not only in matters of the opposite sex, but in all of life's other troubles as well.

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2004-01-05, 4:58 PM #85
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Krokodile:
Some say that there comes a point where looks do not matter. I am living proof that they are plain and simply wrong.

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"Sorry...you're hideously ugly!"
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Maybe it's because I'm living in the scarcely populated midwest, where people tend to get along and are relatively nice to each other regardless of looks, but the only thing that is living proof off is the dense concentration of buttholes/*****es/etc. in this world. Please, someone find that girl and puke all over her dress on prom night.

[This message has been edited by KnobZ (edited January 05, 2004).]
2004-01-05, 6:57 PM #86
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by happydud:
...*looks for four horsemen.*</font>


Sorry, the four horsemen have already ridden. You remember, the pub and all.... [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Lord_Grismath:
Kieran, that Wusiness/Assertiveness bit has officially vaulted you to godlike status in my book.</font>


Indeed, mine too. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/smile.gif]

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2004-01-05, 8:38 PM #87
It's called getting back on the horse after you've been thrown from the saddle. It hurts, but you have to get back on if you ever want to acomplish your goals

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Pissed Off?
2004-01-06, 2:51 AM #88
Now now, y'all are thinking too big.

The first step, guys, is to talk to them.

Here we are today, tracking the most elusive of creatures, Robin. Here she is opening her locker. Her combination is... CRIKEY! She spotted us! Run!

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2004-01-06, 3:19 AM #89
ROFL! Oh give that man a cookie!
2004-01-06, 5:13 AM #90
You guys seem to be having fun with this. Whats interesting is how the thread shifted. While I appreciate it all, I never asked for advice; I never even said I had to have a girlfriend. I just wish I could have someone to do nice things for, I'm nice to my friends but...there is a limit to how nice you are to boys before things just get creepy. I kind of just wish I had somewhere to turn for moral support, heck, maybe I already do (not you guys). Anyways, I talk to girls with no problem, I get along with most. I tell the ones I don't like to shove off as I am not going to date some ***** anyways why should I make her any different than a guy who pisses me off. I'm confident in some ways, not others, either way I'm working on it and I'm going to have a time along the way.

Now, I have only logged 8 straight hours of KoTR last night, I must redouble my efforts today and get in 12!
2004-01-06, 5:28 AM #91
If you doubled your efforts, wouldn't you get in 16 hours?

You will find that nearly every person on these forums fancies themselves as wise, experienced, and otherwise more knowledgeable and worldly than anyone else in here, so any thread of this sort becomes a big counselling session.
2004-01-06, 10:29 AM #92
I don't consider myself wise in anything I'm just playin around. Sorry man...
2004-01-06, 10:40 AM #93
Doubling my efforts doesn't relate to effeciency. I am human, I don't have 100% effeciency. My gaming time degrades with longer time spans.
2004-01-06, 12:13 PM #94
Ah no worrys, it is all welcome. This is fun.
2004-01-06, 1:05 PM #95
This is all good advice, and can be useful.

OR


Your can do it Strong Bad Style [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]
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2004-01-06, 1:55 PM #96
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by PnHobbit:
Whats interesting is how the thread shifted. </font>


By shifted, I assume you mean 'Went offtopic'. Welcome to Massassi. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]
2004-01-06, 2:41 PM #97
well i dont get it PnHobbit

the post you made was more like an statement that the rest of us cant really expand on to much ...all that advice for the people who replied to your post who were seeming to have a problem with girls. yer doin fine mate [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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2004-01-06, 3:29 PM #98
I am 16, and I never dated, but I rejected many.

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2004-01-06, 4:32 PM #99
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by PnHobbit:
My gaming time degrades with longer time spans.</font>


Is it just me, or is that the deepest stament ever? [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif]

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Pissed Off?
2004-01-06, 4:39 PM #100
It's not just you. Deep.

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2004-01-06, 7:17 PM #101
I give in, I beat expectations though. 12 hours, 30 minutes straight of KoTR - I guess I did stop for meals. I'm done for.
2004-01-07, 1:37 AM #102
This KoTOR is corrupting... O_o
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