Ok, i'm going to tryand break this down real quick
ok, now that's point fine, you've kept that opinion. throughout. but there you say that you view porn in a relationship as cheating, aka WRONG. If it wasn't wrong, it wouldn't be called 'cheating'. So, regardless of wether it is right or wrong at the moment, you say there that you're opinion is that its wrong in a relationship.
Ok, now, so, if a friend of yours is in a raltionship but watches porn, suddenly its not wrong? or jsut that you're going to let it slide? And there is a difference between thinking that somethign someone does is wrong and thinking hthe themselves are a horrible person. everyone has room for growth.
Secondly, you have, this entire thread, claimed that everyone here who is defending porn has no social life, spends all day editing games (which,as some else mentioned, can turn into a very profitable career), never had a relationship, etc etc etc. but you're not saying they're 'bad' as compared to you? um....k....
Ok, so you can say its wrong, but you're not going to ask them to change. alright. so if someone mugs you in a street, you're going to say"that's not nice!" but won't actually atempt to stop them from doing it? Again, um... k...
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Originally posted by Temperamental
I view porn as objectifying and degrading to women, I have a grilfriend, and I view watching porn while having a girlfriend as a form of cheating, and especially if your girflriend doesnt like it or the idea of you watching it, it then becomes a lack of respect for her.
I view porn as objectifying and degrading to women, I have a grilfriend, and I view watching porn while having a girlfriend as a form of cheating, and especially if your girflriend doesnt like it or the idea of you watching it, it then becomes a lack of respect for her.
ok, now that's point fine, you've kept that opinion. throughout. but there you say that you view porn in a relationship as cheating, aka WRONG. If it wasn't wrong, it wouldn't be called 'cheating'. So, regardless of wether it is right or wrong at the moment, you say there that you're opinion is that its wrong in a relationship.
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If someone chooses to view porn, I am not going to shun them. I am not going to say "OMG YOU WATCH PORN YOU ARE A BAD PERSON". Kinda the same thing with the pot subject.. If you think pot is bad/wrong, but you have friends that do it and you are ok with them and remain friends with them.
Ok, now, so, if a friend of yours is in a raltionship but watches porn, suddenly its not wrong? or jsut that you're going to let it slide? And there is a difference between thinking that somethign someone does is wrong and thinking hthe themselves are a horrible person. everyone has room for growth.
Secondly, you have, this entire thread, claimed that everyone here who is defending porn has no social life, spends all day editing games (which,as some else mentioned, can turn into a very profitable career), never had a relationship, etc etc etc. but you're not saying they're 'bad' as compared to you? um....k....
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When I say I dont think it's wrong, etc, I mean that I am not going to tell someone what to do. I am merely stating my point of view on porn, I am not telling someone what to do. Hence, if they choose to view porn, I'll take it as their decision, not mine, and I wont say a thing. I may not like it, but it damages me in no way, it's not my life, and sure it isn't something I myself would do or like, but they arent me.
Ok, so you can say its wrong, but you're not going to ask them to change. alright. so if someone mugs you in a street, you're going to say"that's not nice!" but won't actually atempt to stop them from doing it? Again, um... k...
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Thats what I mean when I say I dont think porn is WRONG if you watch it. But just because I think it is wrong or not, doesnt mean I also cant think that it does objectify some women in some way.
Ok, now, see, here i don't relaly have a problem. you're debating about the topic and why one should/ shouldn't do it. why all the flipping around about everything else?
Just to say, i'm not arguing for or against the law at this time, i haven't researched it enough to put in my opinion. Temp's flip flopping jsut got me piqued.
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Why the need for the placeholder? That's the same as saying that someone went out and slept with someone else because they weren't getting any, so they needed a placeholder. Sure, it's another extreme comparison, but still, the principle is the same. The placeholder.
The difference is that I fantasize about my girlfriend, not another girl. When you watch porn, you're watching another girl. You are getting off to another girl. You aren't actually physically touching or with that other girl at the time, but it is her and the images of her on the screen that get you off.
The difference is that I fantasize about my girlfriend, not another girl. When you watch porn, you're watching another girl. You are getting off to another girl. You aren't actually physically touching or with that other girl at the time, but it is her and the images of her on the screen that get you off.
Ok, now, see, here i don't relaly have a problem. you're debating about the topic and why one should/ shouldn't do it. why all the flipping around about everything else?
Just to say, i'm not arguing for or against the law at this time, i haven't researched it enough to put in my opinion. Temp's flip flopping jsut got me piqued.
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