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A dilemma of giant breasts or being a total pansy.
2011-04-05, 10:56 AM #41
No it's not just a redhead thing, it's women. I met this girl, we hit it off, she never told me about her boyfriend who lives with her (they didnt sleep in the same bed for 8 months). We hook up, she breaks up with him and kicks him out.. however (comma) apparently he is still in the "move out" stage and is whining and complaining about his life but that's ok it just makes me look that much better of a person since my life is actually somewhat together.
"Nulla tenaci invia est via"
2011-04-05, 11:33 AM #42
WOMEN, AMIRITE GUYZ.

all girls
2011-04-05, 11:36 AM #43
Quote:
however (comma)


lol
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2011-04-05, 11:54 AM #44
Originally posted by saberopus:
WOMEN, AMIRITE GUYZ.

all girls


dude your so right!
"Nulla tenaci invia est via"
2011-04-05, 12:23 PM #45
This is incredibly unwise. When someone cheats on you, just remember the golden rule, and how you're about to break it. You won't have any right to complain.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 12:47 PM #46
Originally posted by Freelancer:
This is incredibly unwise. When someone cheats on you, just remember the golden rule, and how you're about to break it. You won't have any right to complain.


What? He isn't cheating. She's the one cheating... he's done nothing wrong. Whether she cheats on her boyfriend has nothing to do with him. If Antony doesn't sleep with her, someone else will. He may as well get the fun of it.

Also have you ever seen a chick flick? The girl meets "Mr. Right" about a month before she's about to get married to some complete jerk... who does she end up with?
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2011-04-05, 12:49 PM #47
Freelancer, you forget that I haven't had a legitimate relationship in several years because it's not worth the hassle. I end up getting pissed off and just not talking to them anymore, until I get bored and or drunk, that is.
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 12:50 PM #48
Originally posted by Ni:
Also have you ever seen a chick flick? The girl meets "Mr. Right" about a month before she's about to get married to some complete jerk... who does she end up with?

Yeah, but I promise I'm not Mr Right.
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 12:54 PM #49
Originally posted by Ni:
What? He isn't cheating. She's the one cheating... he's done nothing wrong. Whether she cheats on her boyfriend has nothing to do with him.


Whut. Seriously.. whut. I am honestly flabbergasted.

Originally posted by Antony:
Freelancer, you forget that I haven't had a legitimate relationship in several years because it's not worth the hassle. I end up getting pissed off and just not talking to them anymore, until I get bored and or drunk, that is.


Okay.. so you're fine with hurting your credibility. That's fine. But the thing you forget is it's not all about you. There are three people involved in the equation.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 12:58 PM #50
Originally posted by Antony:
Yeah, but I promise I'm not Mr Right.


That's right, your Mr. Right Now.
"Nulla tenaci invia est via"
2011-04-05, 1:01 PM #51
Originally posted by Freelancer:
Whut. Seriously.. whut. I am honestly flabbergasted.



Okay.. so you're fine with hurting your credibility. That's fine. But the thing you forget is it's not all about you. There are three people involved in the equation.


The thing you forget is that I don't care about the personal happiness of someone I've never even met. And I know that the redhead is just a crazy ***** who does whatever she wants.
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 1:02 PM #52
Originally posted by Antony:
The thing you forget is that I don't care about the personal happiness of someone I've never even met.


You are what is wrong with this world.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 1:04 PM #53
Originally posted by Freelancer:
This is incredibly unwise. When someone cheats on you, just remember the golden rule, and how you're about to break it. You won't have any right to complain.
Golden rule: because you'd rather have your cheating girlfriend sleep with a random dude than someone she knows and trusts.
2011-04-05, 1:07 PM #54
Originally posted by Antony:
Yeah, but I promise I'm not Mr Right.



Yeah but it's a chick mentality thing. Some girls will stay in an unhappy relationship because they don't want to be single and move on when they find someone else. For some reason cheating is less slutty than being single and having a one night stand.

Originally posted by Freelancer:
You are what is wrong with this world.


This girl is going to cheat on her boyfriend whatever happens. Antony may as well be the one to have some fun....
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2011-04-05, 1:14 PM #55
Originally posted by Ni:
This girl is going to cheat on her boyfriend whatever happens. Antony may as well be the one to have some fun....


That's a really weak rationalization. Let's even forget for a moment that the first statement cannot be proven.

This just makes you selfish and unprincipled, as well as directly hurting another person pretty severely through your actions. By claiming that 'it would have been someone else,' you are just trying to dodge responsibility for your actions. No, you are the one who enabled this to happen. Stop trying to appear noble and just admit that you aren't.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 1:19 PM #56
So you honestly think that a girl who says "get me alone and "**** my brains out." to someone who isn't her boyfriend is likely to remain loyal to said boyfriend if Antony declines? She's obviously not happy in the relationship.
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2011-04-05, 1:21 PM #57
That's not the point. You don't own her actions. Only your own.

The point is that you withhold sex from the crazy chick until she properly ends her relationship (that is — if you're not so disgusted by her behavior that you never want to see her again) thereby reducing the hurt to the fellow by quite a bit.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 1:29 PM #58
Except she probably won't. By the sounds of it, it's sex she's after, not Antony in particular. She'll more than likely just find someone else who will help her cheat... the hurt to the guy will be the same.
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2011-04-05, 1:34 PM #59
"the hurt to the guy will be the same"

Not really the point, either. Besides being unprovable, it's you who will have to live with unleashing that hurt. Otherwise, you wouldn't have to deal with it at all. If you have no empathy, which is apparently the case with Antony, then this line of reasoning would naturally have no effect.

Edit:

Yes, I'm kinda aware that my argument is hopelessly Kantian in nature (ie, relies on everyone acting on the same principles to carry out a desired result). If everyone behaved how I have outlined, then she wouldn't be able to hurt the guy in that way. However, there is a personal benefit aspect to my argument as well — which is not giving your conscience a reason to fuss. And an altruistic one, in not being accessory to breaking up a relationship/hurting someone. So yes, I'm aware that in the raw utilitarian, practical sense, there's most likely going to be one outcome.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 1:37 PM #60
It's just sex whats the big deal? If that other guy can't handle it, **** him! :D
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2011-04-05, 1:41 PM #61
Perhaps then, what Antony and myself lack in empathy we make up for in getting laid. Antony has no agreement with the guy about who he can/cant sleep with. The girl does. She is the one breaking that boundary.
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2011-04-05, 1:44 PM #62
Originally posted by Freelancer:
"the hurt to the guy will be the same"

Not really the point, either. Besides being unprovable, it's you who will have to live with unleashing that hurt. Otherwise, you wouldn't have to deal with it at all. If you have no empathy, which is apparently the case with Antony, then this line of reasoning would naturally have no effect.

Edit:

Yes, I'm kinda aware that my argument is hopelessly Kantian in nature (ie, relies on everyone acting on the same principles to carry out a desired result). If everyone behaved how I have outlined, then she wouldn't be able to hurt the guy in that way. However, there is a personal benefit aspect to my argument as well — which is not giving your conscience a reason to fuss. And an altruistic one, in not being accessory to breaking up a relationship/hurting someone. So yes, I'm aware that in the raw utilitarian, practical sense, there's most likely going to be one outcome.

Isn't it Antony's duty, though, to accelerate the demise of a clearly doomed relationship? The longer it takes the more it's going to hurt.
2011-04-05, 1:45 PM #63
Originally posted by zanardi:
It's just sex whats the big deal? If that other guy can't handle it, **** him! :D


I think you mean her. ;)
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2011-04-05, 1:51 PM #64
Originally posted by Ni:
Perhaps then, what Antony and myself lack in empathy we make up for in getting laid. Antony has no agreement with the guy about who he can/cant sleep with. The girl does. She is the one breaking that boundary.


By showing a lack of regard for the sanctity of that agreement, you are weakening the trust others place in you concerning similar agreements.

Originally posted by Thrawn[numbarz:
]Isn't it Antony's duty, though, to accelerate the demise of a clearly doomed relationship? The longer it takes the more it's going to hurt.


Another weak argument. While true that persisting in a mediocre relationship doesn't do anyone any favors, it's silly to compare it to the hurt of being cheated on. The hurt would clearly be far less if the relationship is ended before any sex takes place, because there is no longer any expectation of exclusivity.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 2:14 PM #65
Yes, but I hate relationships and have no interest in ever having a serious relationship. I don't care about the sanctity of the agreement.
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 2:18 PM #66
Cool.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 2:21 PM #67
Isn't it?
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 2:26 PM #68
Nah, not really, but there is nothing else to say.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2011-04-05, 2:27 PM #69
Then don't say anything else. Perfect.
>>untie shoes
2011-04-05, 2:47 PM #70
Originally posted by zanardi:
It's just sex whats the big deal? If that other guy can't handle it, **** him! :D

Yknow I think I got banned for saying something similar to this the other week.

:ninja:
nope.
2011-04-05, 2:51 PM #71
Originally posted by Freelancer:
You are what is wrong with this world.

I second this.
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2011-04-05, 3:23 PM #72
I'm completely with Freelancer on this.
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2011-04-05, 3:26 PM #73
Originally posted by ORJ_JoS:
I'm completely with Freelancer on this.


think.... very.... carefully....
2011-04-05, 3:59 PM #74
still not seeing any pics....
free(jin);
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2011-04-05, 4:11 PM #75
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She contacted me tonight to let me know that even though she has a boyfriend, now that I am out of boot camp, she fully intends to:

"get me alone and "**** my brains out."


When I see a relationship like this, the very first word that comes to mind is "sanctity."
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2011-04-05, 4:21 PM #76
Originally posted by Jon`C:
think.... very.... carefully....

To be fair, Free is an expert being being a horrible human being.
nope.
2011-04-05, 4:26 PM #77
If anyone tries to deter you from sweet sweet love they are either jealous, not getting any themselves, or both.

This girl has a bf and yet still is willing to preform the mattress mambo? Well I think you need to create a reason for those two to separate. For the boyfriends sake. :)

Dont be too judgmental massassi, its easy not to cheat when no one wants your ugly ass. :colbert:
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2011-04-05, 4:32 PM #78
Are we talking about redheads ... like fire-crotch redheads?

Every redhead girl I met or seen was crazy or insane.

Oddly enough, every redhead man I've met or seen has a beard.
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2011-04-05, 4:39 PM #79
That's because it means less skin exposed to the sun.
nope.
2011-04-05, 4:41 PM #80
Interesting. I thought it was to disguise the stains from all the BLOOD THEY DRINK
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