But you have to realize that she isn't perfect. She's not a goddess. She's a fallible human being like you. Just remember that.

BTW, I've heard what I've heard from older women too.

its alright i guess.... sounds a bit generic though...and its long.

Where did I say she was? There's also a big difference in seeing some as perfect from thinking someone is perfect.

My advice is purdy simple. Don't tell her how you feel. Ask her out. The spilling your heart out deal only works in movies. Trust me.


PS: I'm also after a girl and I'm pretty much in the same situation. There is no telling either way. I wouldn't say that I love her or anything near it. I like her a bunch. Not only is she cute, but she's fun and smart and we have a lot of common interests. She used to touch me but doesn't really anymore. Actually my story is a lot like yours, except without the drive by the house thing and if you bump the ages down a little. We're not in a band, but I am. She heard us and has recently started bugging me for a recording. I sing and play guitar, just for a quick backround on that(I unfortionately can't do both at the same time very well at all unless the music goes with/ sounds like the words. This causes the verses to mainly be power chords and lame easy chords)anywoo, I've got the same problem with signs. I don't really have any bad signs though, so I'm just gonna go for it when I see an opportunity. Better yet, I'll make my own. Today or tomorrow. Why wait? Send out the massassi vibe to me. Wish me luck.:cool:

Ha, I just realised that this thread has boosted Dog's post count by about 75. And mine by 2. Score

ugh... I'm in the same room with her right now. AND I'm a coward.

you're in the same room as her...and yet you're still talking to us? now that doesn't seem right, now does it?

postcount +3

Actually, I was going to try to work up the balls to talk to her tomorrow. But I wanted to casually see her tonight. Although I did briefly talk to her, too.

*vibes for Dogs*

oh, I almost forgot...

/me works teh balls.

Ditto. Now someone vibe for me
wow I'm so bored right now. Seriously you have no idea.
+4

+5133. I have too much time.

Well I say treat her well, but dont act like she's the end and beginning of the world. She's human. I know it may seem like that since you care so deeply about her, and dont get me wrong, do treat her good, seems like she's a good person and deserves that, but u have to also take into thought that you also need to be treated good. I understand you said you give your all for a woman, but all relationships are 50/50. It wont work if one is solely devoted to the other. It has to be both people meeting in the middle. Love is something strong, but at this phase it seems more like infatuation on your side. You love more the "thought" of her. Her being innocent, her needing aide. You have to also understand there are times that you arent seeing her, that she may have a bad day and be in a bad mood, or slip in a puddle, or anything, she's just human. And she's not perfect, but she may be perfect for you, or rather, you all may be perfect for each other...then again you might not. Either way you will never know unless u ask her out. not to be rude, but grow some b@ll$ and do it! At least that way you can know whether or not to move on.

Ok, I grew the balls. :p I just came back from her house, so let's just say she definitely knows now, and I'm waiting to see what happens.

yay! *huggles* ok NOW u've become a man! whatever the outcome, i'm proud of you. It takes a lot to do that. congrats!

Laura

Whoo!
Keep us posted. I'm hoping for the best.

'nuff said.

I am sincerely sorry to hear that.

She didn't actually say she wasn't interested, but her body language yesterday pretty much screamed it.

It took guts to do what you did, and I officially deem you a man now. U know there's that song Unanswered Prayers (yes I often turn to music regardless of the mood, songs seem to have most of the answers) and it's just about how this guy is with his wife and one day runs into this lady he was all about, and he'd pray to god that she'd take some interest in him etc, and it never happened, and now that he's with his wife and happy he looks back on that experiance and kinda laughs.

it says "sometimes I thank god for answered prayers...just remember when you're talking to the man upstairs, just because he doesnt answer, doesnt mean he dont care, cuz some of gods greatest gifts, are unaswered prayers" Not to get all preachy or nothing. but it's the truth. I say take what happened with her as a lesson, it took guts to do what you did, but she's just not the one for you. Now you are at liberty to move on and find other girls.

I mean think about it. Think of her (just one girl) then think of where u live, then think of all the women in the state, then think of all the women in all the united states, then think of all the women in other countries all over the world. Trust me, she's NOT going to be the last woman u'll ever care for you will find someone who is right for you, and u'll be happier. It hurts now, of course, but just take it as a lesson learned. I give u kudos for having the guts, and now u have the freedom to move on to someone who's prob. more deserving of your time and who likes u back. Keep your head up k. laterz

Laura:)

Yeah, I know the song you're talking about, I've heard it before.

Who sings it again? Isn't it a country singer?

yeah it is *ducks as everyone throws stuff* lol my sisters ex used to listen to country and he got her on it and she has some country cds. that song is by garth brooks (on one of her cds) I like the lyrics

Laura

That what I thought.

Garth Brooks is awesome. And so is that song.