Well, I had several posts quoted to reply to, then I saw that Darth Slaw did it for me
As I have said, and he has said, the Catholic Church does not 'condemn' people..that's up to God. As I stated earlier, the Church cannot confirm that anybody is in Hell.
Again, keep in mind that we're discussing official Church teaching..not extremists of all branches of Christianity. I have some extended family that probably believes that I'm going to hell. Fortunately for me, they aren't making that choice.
Some non-Catholic Christian teaching is that unless you were 'born again', you're going to hell -- this isn't too hot of a deal for those who haven't heard of Christ..hence the Church's stance on this issue. We all have 'natural law' inside of us -- we know (unless we're mentally messed up) that it is wrong to kill or rape someone..we don't need a God to tell us that.
Let's not even compare abortion/pro-life issues to AIDs -- that's another thread altogether.
This shows my point quite well.
Many of you seem to miss the point that some of us actually
want to be Catholic. You don't see the Church condemning non-Catholics left and right..