You know, I'm completely in the same boat as you. It's funny though: if you look back at around the time of Trump's inauguration, there were people in the media who were trying to prepare the American public for life under an authoritarian leader, and saying one of the things to watch out for is growing numb to all the outrage. At some point, if some of us in the past could see us now, they might've thought that our indifference to this whole thing was a sign that the bad guys had won in some crucial way. (I'm sure there are some in the #resistance now who'd make the same judgment.)
I was pretty convinced at the time that the media would so overreact to Trump whenever he did relatively banal things that they'd effectively destroy their own reputations and the public's trust in them, so that people would stop paying attention, because it would become impossible to tell true from false. That was the spirit of many of my criticisms of the media earlier on in his presidency. In some respects, I feel vindicated. I've always for as long as I knew about it thought that the goal of Russian intervention was only partially to effect the results. What was always more important was causing the American public to overreact, by causing the media to go into full-on crisis mode, to make the mainstream media appear as partisan opponents of Trump (thus delegitimizing them and reducing our trust in them), and to effect increasingly division and disaffection with American institutions. It was always about causing us to harm ourselves through overreacting.
Go figure that the Trump-Russia scandal now encompasses things that have almost nothing to do with Russia, and that "Trump-Russia" no refers to a collection of scandals that are "shots on goal" for getting Trump impeached. I guess I look at that and think it's the clearest sign that Russia succeeded beyond its wildest dreams.